Play Date
Boston
1989
We watched our kids play, or learn to play since they were very young and learning to do everything all at once. They were figuring how it all worked. This was in Tom Lux’s backyard. Tom wore a Hawaiian shirt. Loud flowers. His daughter and my son, toddlers, got into things now at the drop of a hat. We all wore some kind of hat in the sun. We watched them closely. Without taking our eyes off of them, Tom and I talked about dairy farms (Tom, the one he grew up on. Me, the one I worked on in Iowa before I came out to Boston), how dairy farmers are different, how they name their cows, how they can never leave because the herd has to be milked day-in, day-out. It was, it is, its own kind of exhausted attention. We continued to watch the kids closely as they ran near the pool. We didn’t drink, of course, but I’ll never forget how Tom, deadpan sober, always referred to Glenfiddich as Glenfidget.
